While cougars are strong, independent women, it doesn't mean they don't want a man who takes control. Having money and being older doesn't mean she should be the one to handle the cheque. When setting out the date, she shouldn't be the one dictating all the things. You should have ideas on where to eat, the movies to watch and the activities to engage in. When you show control, you are more attractive as the older woman sees that she doesn't have to work too much while with you. It also shows that you are mature. While it's good to take control, you shouldn't dominate the woman. This is to avoid putting her off.
Due to the many benefits that come with dating a cougar, when you get a first date with her you should do all the right things to increase your chances of getting a second date. To help you out, here are golden tips that will help you secure a second date with her.